Jacob Bos and I are very good friends and business partners. He is a TikTok live streamer, photographer and videographer. We connected last year when we were both seeking to collaborate with other content creators. He wanted to take sensual photos of mature women and I wanted my photo taken by someone with experience both in front and behind the camera.
We developed a profound and intimate connection that led us into a triad with his significant other. We aren’t romantically or sexually involved anymore. I ended the triad in July and then about a month later she ended her relationship with him.
I will write more about how the triad came to be as well as the heartbreak of it ending at a later time. I’m still processing.
Taking eroticism off the table has made my partnership with Jacob deeper and more resilient. Working together is easy because we have a shared sense of purpose and vision . We respect each other in terms of how we earn our individual livings (TikTok lives for him and Jerkmate private cam shows for me) and we are on the same page as creative partners for content creation, joint TikTok lives, events and travel.
Jacob is honest and transparent with his following about us no longer being in a sexual relationship but still very close as friends and collaborators. This has been important because of Jacob’s relationship status has an effect on his business.