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Señor Clooney's avatar

You and I will get along great. As a hetero man, I write about solo sex for women. Gourmet solo sex in which you make solo an erotic event. Prepare for it, candles, music, mirrors, tease yourself mercilessly, edge and create explosive orgasms. You have discovered the beauty of solo sex. Enhancements can be astonishing.

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Velvet Lure's avatar

This speaks so deeply to how pleasure evolves with time from a quick release to a rich, personal ritual. I explore something similar in my latest erotic story… it just might stir your own senses and leave your fingers tempted. Feel free to take a slow read, if you’re in the mood.

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Señor Clooney's avatar

I'm going to read it with joy. By making it a ritual, you've added so much elegance. Solo sex must be a celebration. I used candles, music, mild intoxicants, a thong, high-value porn. I'm not interested in paid subscriptions, all my writing is free. I hope you read some of my posts.

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Jeff's avatar

I have discovered through Kundalini/Shakti Energy, the pleasures of eroticizing the Chakras through the anus(I am straight). Known as White Tantra, it is solo, although it would nice to communicate in that way with a woman.

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Bob's avatar

Hi Seska. In my more youthful days. I would masturbated for pleasure sake. After marriage I continued my daily stroking to build up the sexual energy for later in the day. As I got older I noticed how my mind would reached a place of ecstasy. Not the sexual pleasure, but a pleasure way better. I came to accept that sexual pleasure was like a number of rocks, stepping stones going across a creek, that I could use to reach the other bank. The ectasy was amazing and I wanted to share it with other people. I began using my body to help others achieve the level of quitness and solitude that I would always fall in after the power of that ectasy.

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Seska's avatar

"pleasure was like a number of rocks"

I like this metaphor!

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Marc's avatar

Seska, when I was in my late teens, I worked nights. I would masturbate to help me sleep. It was quick and not erotic. Later in life it is for pleasure and taking time to enjoy the tranquility of self exploration. I enjoy reading your articles and thank you!

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Seska's avatar

Tranquillity of self -- I love it.

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